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ohk. so we just started high school this year and it seems like all of our friends are changing, and not for the better!! we have this friend that we just found out has turned bi-sexual. she has madeout with other girls from our school and felt them up. it bothers us deeply because we change in front of her in the locker room and we’ve stayed at her house and changed and even slept in the same bed as her and we knew none of this. we dont mean to offend anyone but we just aren’t used to our friends changing that drastically.
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December 25th, 2007 at 9:15 pm
Chances are good that she didn’t “turn” bi-sexual, rather, those feelings were always there and she is just finally comfortable in exploring them. So the best way to look at it may truly be to see that she probably always felt like this, even if just a little bit, and that never affected you or your friends negatively before. And even if the “worse-case scenario” occured and she hit on you or a friend, do you honestly think that she would be disrespectful, or rather just sit you down and discuss her feelings? I am going to guess the latter, simply because she wouldn’t want to jeopardize your friendship. Usually, anyone in that position just needs to know that their friends are there for them. Generally people fear what they don’t understand, so perhaps take on that you will open up dialogue about it with her, beyond her “hook-ups” and try to understand where she is coming from. Chances are good that an open mind and open ear is all that she wants from her friends. Just don’t treat her lifestyle as some sort of sexual perversion - she is just experimenting and making her feel wrong or ashamed will only serve to damage her self-esteem and potentially hurt her emotionally.